The continent of Africa is home to a wide
diversity of religions and cultures and therefore one can find a
great variation in wedding traditions. However, a remarkable and
unifying feature of wedding in Africa is that people of Africa give
utmost regard to the institution of marriage. Besides, in most of
African societies, wedding is seen as the coming together of
families or even the mixture of two tribes into one family unit.
Bright festive colors, song, dance and music is a vital element of
many African-wedding ceremonies. Common to all wedding ceremonies is
the concept of transitioning between childhood and adulthood.
Great Diversity in Wedding Traditions:
There exist more than 1,000 cultural units in Africa and each tribe
has its own set of wedding traditions some as old as hundred or
thousands of years. Additionally, many Africans have Islamic and
Christian influences and that plays a big role in the wedding
ceremonies. In some tribal societies wedding traditions are
extremely elaborate lasting many days. On the other hand in some
tribes, huge ceremonies are held during which many couples are
united at the same time.
Popular Wedding Traditions:
Though different tribal communities in Africa follow their own set
of wedding customs and traditions, there are some traditions that
are more common than others are. Given here is a short description
of some of the more popular wedding traditions as seen in the
African Tribal Weddings.
- Jumping the Broom: One
of the most common traditions of African Tribal Wedding is
'jumping the broom'. The ritual is said to have originated from
the Deep South during the American Civil War when slave weddings
were not permitted and so an alternative commitment ceremony had
to be found. In this ceremony, the broom is placed on the floor
and the couple jumps over it. The gesture is said to symbolize
jump from single-hood into matrimony or sweeping away the old
and welcoming the new.
- Knock on the Door: In
Ghana, an Asante male interested in a woman must 'knock on the
door' so his mother and maternal uncle visit the girl's family
and propose marriage.
- Training to Become Good Wife:
Several tribal communities of Africa follow the
tradition of imparting training to young girls to become good
wives. Here young girls even learn secret codes and secret
languages that allow them to talk with other married women
without their husbands understanding what is being said.
- Polygamy: Another
common tradition observed in African tribal societies is the
tradition of polygamy. In several tribal communities of Somalia,
a man is allowed to have as many as four wives if he can support
them all. Besides, it is not uncommon for a girl to be engaged
before she is even born. In many African cultures children are
encouraged to marry as young as 13 to 15 years of age, as soon
as they have reached physical adulthood.
Influence of Western Society in African Tribal Wedding:
In present times, influence of western society is clearly visible
in the way weddings in African are conducted. Some rich families in
Africa even go to the extent of holding two wedding ceremonies - one
in traditional African style and the other in modern western style.
Court marriage and love marriages too have become order of the day.
This change in wedding traditions is attributed to the fact that
Africa is becoming overpopulated and western countries seem to have
an increased influence on the African people.