Christian Weddings are usually conducted in
a Church with much joy and celebrations. Just as in weddings
conducted around the world, rituals and traditions of a Christian
wedding too can be divided in terms of pre-wedding, wedding and
post-wedding rituals. Participation of friends and family members of
the bride and the bridegroom helps to add joy to the wedding
celebrations. Though the basic set of rituals of a Christian wedding
generally remains the same, regional variations can be observed as
communities tend to be influenced by the tradition of land they may
be living in.
Wedding Dress:
Traditionally, a Christian bride wears a white gown in western
style and the groom wears a suit. The bride's head is covered with a
white veil and a crown - a tiara or a bunch of white flowers, and
she holds a flower bouquet in her hand. Though the Indian bride too
might wear white, she might be clad in a saree with a small veil
covering her face.
Pre-Wedding Rituals:
Find out about some of the most well known and much enjoyed
pre-wedding customs of a Christian Wedding.
- Bridal Shower: Bridal
Shower is one of the major pre-wedding customs of a Christian
Wedding. This is basically a fun-filled and entertaining
informal hen party, which is hosted by the bride's female
friends. It is mainly a female get-together that is enlivened by
songs, dance and joyful game sessions. Friends and relatives
present gifts to the bride-to-be and give blessings for a
blissful married life. Following the tradition, the bride serves
a pink cake to all present. Uniqueness of the cake is that there
is a thimble hidden inside this cake. It is believed that a girl
who receives the piece of cake with a thimble will be the next
to get married.
- Bachelor's Party: Bachelor's
Party is the parallel version of the Bridal Shower and is hosted
by the groom for his friends. It is essentially a stag party
organized on the eve of the wedding or a couple of days before
the wedding where a groom is expected to enjoy his last evening
as a bachelor. A Bachelor's Party typically begins by raising a
toast before the drinking begins in earnest. It is mostly
celebrated to have fun and enjoyment with close friends.
Wedding Rituals:
Christian Wedding rituals and customs are simple and easy to
follow. Please read on to know about the basic traditions and
customs of a Christian marriage ceremony.
- Welcoming the Bride: The
ceremony of welcoming the bride is conducted on the day of a
Christian wedding. Groom sends a car to pick up the bride and
waits for her outside the church. Following the tradition, when
the bride arrives, the Best Man welcomes her with a kiss on
either cheek and hands her a bouquet of flowers. Following this
ritual, the couple walks down the aisle slowly and gracefully
accompanied by the wedding procession. Inside the church, the
couple walks up to the place where the priest stands for the
wedding mass. The priest then welcomes them and offers his best
wishes.
- The Wedding Mass: When
everyone has taken place, the priest begins the wedding mass
with hymns and selected reading from the bible. The priest then
delivers the homily, with an emphasis on the sanctity of
marriage. The next most important ritual is the blessings and
the exchange of wedding rings and marriage vows by the couple.
The wedding rings are first blessed by the priest in a belief
that it will instill in the bearers an everlasting love and an
earnest faith. A Christian Wedding ceremony comes to an end with
the final blessings of the priest. Then towards the end, the
guests shower their blessings on the newly wed couple. Finally,
the newly wed couple signs the register and walk down the aisle
arm in arm.
Post-Wedding Reception:
Reception is the most vibrant and sought after occasion organized
after a Christian Wedding. As the newly wed couple enters a grand
reception ceremony they are welcomed by all with a shower of
confetti. Following the tradition, the happy couple also cut a
wedding cake and feed each other a bite of the first slice. The
Toastmaster proposes a toast in honor of the couple. The reception
is mostly celebrated with dance and dinner party. Some people also
arrange for a live band performance where everybody dances to the
tune of the band.